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can you / do you / are you involved or would you be involved romantically
with someone who eats meat?
I tried this once and realized this is a bad idea for me and will not be doing that again.
I also had alot of resentment for an ex who referred to herself as a vegetarian
yet ate shrimp alot and some fish.
just wanted to hear what everyone else thought about this
since I was thinking over how important this is to me.
with someone who eats meat?
I tried this once and realized this is a bad idea for me and will not be doing that again.
I also had alot of resentment for an ex who referred to herself as a vegetarian
yet ate shrimp alot and some fish.
just wanted to hear what everyone else thought about this
since I was thinking over how important this is to me.
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Re: romantic relationships and meat eaters?
Thu, August 28, 2008 - 7:52 PMyes I have never met a Sasquatch that wasn't vegetarian. couldn't help it.
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Re: romantic relationships and meat eaters?
Thu, August 28, 2008 - 7:57 PMIn my past I have been with meat eating partners. Now that I am living with a vegetarian I am much happier. I don't expect us to ever break up, and I know he won't ever eat meat, although he might go back to consuming dairy. I am doing what I can to keep his meals vegan and for him to like it that way.
If I were single, though, I would preferably become interested only in vegetarians. But if true love struck, I might cave. -
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Re: romantic relationships and meat eaters?
Tue, September 30, 2008 - 7:48 PMMy husband is a meat eater, but he understands my viewpoint enough to know the rules: no meat in the house, no meat with my pots, pans, dishes, etc. On the rare occasion he has had lunch meat in the fridge but if it doesn't touch anything I prepare food on or eat food with, I'm willing to let it slide every now and then.
Whenever we eat at home, it's vegetarian. I hoped for a long time he'd make the change but he won't and I have to accept that. Even if he isn't a vegetarian, he is certainly eating less meat than before he met me, so it's still positive in that sense. -
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Re: romantic relationships and meat eaters?
Tue, September 30, 2008 - 9:23 PMYes, he is probably eating much less meat than before! Wouldn't it be nice if more meat eaters would go without meat for most of their meals? The amount of meat sold and animals killed for human consumption would be markedly different.
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Re: romantic relationships and meat eaters?
Tue, September 30, 2008 - 9:51 PMI'm in the same boat as you, Rach. My husband is a Pescatarian (eats fish, but no other meat), but totally respects my vegetarianism and having no meat in the house. I am happy, b/c he is consuming MUCH less than before. He really only eats fish maybe 2 - 3 times a month, when he's out (work lunch, dinner w/a friend).
I am very fortunate to have a lot of friends that, although they are meat eaters, their diet really has been influenced by my vegetarianism. They will ask me questions about a vegetarian diet and the benefits, and it has in turn changed some of their eating habits, including cutting meat consumption down about 30 - 40%. Although I do eat out at restaurants where others eat meat, most of my friends will opt for veggie so as not to subject me to meat, even though I assure them, their choice is their right.
Yay for influencing others! :D
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Re: romantic relationships and meat eaters?
Sun, October 5, 2008 - 8:44 PMnot involved at the moment and my ex (20 yrs) ate chicken and fish, but didn't cook it (or bring it) in the house. I don't think i could have a romantic relationship with a "meat" eater.
tobacco would squash the chance also. -
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Re: romantic relationships and meat eaters?
Fri, November 28, 2008 - 8:42 PMI always said that I wouldn't not go out with someone because he ate meat. But about a month ago I was out to dinner (it was only our second time meeting each other) and he ordered the steak special, medium rare Ewww! After sitting there watching him eat it I may have to rethink things. I've never liked preaching to people they can make up there own minds, but being a vegetarian is very important to me. -
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Re: romantic relationships and meat eaters?
Sat, November 29, 2008 - 7:02 AMHow did it work afterward? were you able to not let it bother you?
I have been vegetarian for a long while but still always crave meat, I wonder how seeing a person with who I was emotionally close too would make me feel....
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Re: romantic relationships and meat eaters?
Fri, December 12, 2008 - 8:04 PMthe thought of sperm filled with death crying .. i choose to be with a vegie man.. i have been alone for a long time.. men are there but they have dead chickens fish and cows rotting in there spirit. i now know i cannot have a spiritual mate unless he is a man who eats nothing with a heart beat!